Raising children takes a village, so what better way to
celebrate Mother's Day this Sunday, than to share the wisdom that our own
mothers have imparted to us over the years?
Below
are a few gems from our mothers -- some shouted through the fence at Little League
games or over the hum of the school bus as it carried us off to class, and
others shared over a hug or glass of wine. All the same, it's the wisdom we've
chosen to savor and repeat to ourselves when we need it most because it makes
us better friends, better professionals and better humans.
From
our BOCA family to yours -- Happy Mother's Day and a warm thank you to all the
mothers in our village.
We’d
love to hear from you as well! Please share your own motherly wisdom here in
the comments or on BOCA’s Facebook page.
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"Your
dreams are my dreams, so go make them happen."
"You
can be whatever you want to be."
"You
show people how you would want to be treated."
-- Adriana
Jimenez
“The first
thing you should do when you walk into a room is listen."
"Never
turn your back on the ocean."
"Go run
and play, but stay where I can see you."
-- Ashley
Breinlinger
"Enjoy
your life to the fullest and go, go go! You only have one life so embrace and
enjoy."
-- Kathleen
Shanahan
“Do your
best, that's all you can do." My mom would say this when I was in high
school, stressing over physics or chemistry homework.
“Don't chase
people. When you have to chase someone and convince them to be a part of your
life, the relationship never works out." On dating/marriage.
"Live
in the present and don't spend too much time ruminating about the past. You
can't change the past, so don't spend too much time there." On life.
-- Becky
Quinlan
"Stay
on the right bus, and if you fall off, get back on." My mom was teaching
me that you should always be moving forward in the right direction. It's okay if something happens or you "fall
off,"" as long as you get back on quickly, before the bus gets too
far away from you.
-- Peter Day
“You can
dust it off and try again.”
"Just
be nice and do your best, that's all anyone can ask from you."
“There are
more things to admire in people than to despise."
-- Alex
Petralia
"As
long as you try your hardest, you shouldn't have any regrets."
"Do
what makes you happy. Don't let anyone else tell you what you should do with
your life."
-- Ann &
Irene Hodge
"If
it's cold outside, show the world the warmth of your smile." (Huge smiles
run in the family.)
"Don't
ever let anyone tell you you're not good enough. You can do anything you set
your mind to."
"Where's
your jacket?!?" (Every time I leave the house -- she still asks.)
-- Alivia
Snyder
"Do the
best you can. If you don't succeed, dust yourself off and try again."
-- Michelle
Reingold
"Sticking
your head into gopher holes may seem fun at first, but it's really just
expensive in the end."
-- Ashley to
Bella
“Somebody
said that it couldn't be done, and he with a chuckle replied,/‘That maybe
it couldn't, but he wouldn't be one to say so at least til he tried.’/So he
buckled right in with a trace of a grin on his face, if he worried, he hid it./He tackled
the thing that couldn't be done, and what do you know...He did it!” These lines
were from a poem by Edgar Guest that my grandfather often told to my mom and
that she passed along to me with her love.
-- Michael
Kellner
"If you
don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all."
"Always
remember to smile."
-- Alicia
Cormie
"Measure
twice, cut once." My mom was an architect and very detail-oriented. I'd
like to think that she said this often to encourage me to take a more
thoughtful, conscious approach to plotting out my life, but really she was
probably just tired of how much colored paper I wasted on school projects.
-- Ben Marrone